Ladies why do you do it? Why do you make dating so difficult?
DialM4Speed asked:
Why do women always have to play silly little games? If I ask you out or am trying to get to know you with CLEAR intentions of romance why do you pretend to have no idea of what’s going on? Does dating always have to involve this stupid A song and dance?? I’ve come to envy my dogs…. when that time of the year comes around there’s no BS they just get on with it.
Why do women always have to play silly little games? If I ask you out or am trying to get to know you with CLEAR intentions of romance why do you pretend to have no idea of what’s going on? Does dating always have to involve this stupid A song and dance?? I’ve come to envy my dogs…. when that time of the year comes around there’s no BS they just get on with it.
‘Girls just wanna have fun’
-enough said.
what games? and maybe they just arent interested.
men do the same thing, and women put up with it.
You are going to get tired of sleeping with your dog
well there are girls out there who can be straight forward with what they want and who they want. i know, im one of them. a lot of girls have insecurities and need to hear how much a guy wants them to make them feel like they are wanted, etc.
It’s only SOME women that do this.
And there are many reasons why…here are a few:
1- Women like to be told straight foward that they are needed / wanted.
Sometimes they aren’t 100% sure of the ‘clear intentions’ you’re giving them. Maybe you should be clearer.
2-Maybe she’s not interested.
3- Maybe she’s taken and doesn’t want to make it awkward by letting yo
there are many reasons
1. the best part in every relationship is the beginning. this is what you remember later with nostalgy. see all these romantic movies, they all focus on the troubled part just before the relationship.
2. the idea of value. if you had something easily, would you appreciate its value? would you be impressed by an expensive car if it was cheap? besides, if a girl was just playing it easy, you would be happy for a while, then you would get bored and probably leave the girl for another one that is more difficult. so the harder she plays it the more you will value her and the happier you will be when you are together. and after so much pain to win, you will not want to leave her.
3. biological reasons: men can have many children, but women not many. so it is natural for them to take the time to chose.
4. many girls (probably most or even all), are having in mind more than one guy. so, they play with all of them until making the final choice.
so what to do?
1. be the man. it is good to show that you know what you want and that you are ready to fight for her (we are still in the jungle where the males fight for the female, but humans fight with their brains). So, if you have received enough positive signals (if not then forget her) from her, you have to insist.
2. keep enough value for your own self. dont become her little dog, otherwise she will never respect you and even if you have a relationship with her she will do whatever she wants with you and finally hurt you. decide what is a red line for you.
3. become unpredictable. insist, then disappear, let her make a move, insist, disappear.
4. find one or two more targets girls and do the same thing. it will keep you occupied and teach you strategy.
it is the same in the whole world, but think positive and think strategy.
and finally, consider flirting as fun.
good luck