What can parents do to help their daughters enter the dating world safely and with confidence?
Nasty wants to marry you asked:
Girls rarely get to direct their own sexual identity or development in our culture. Between the messages they get from the media, friends, parents and boys, it’s amazing any of them leave adolescence unscathed. Unfortunately, though, many don’t. So what can parents do to protect their girls? How can they help girls navigate their way through these messages, and still somehow stay true to the girls′ own desires?
Girls rarely get to direct their own sexual identity or development in our culture. Between the messages they get from the media, friends, parents and boys, it’s amazing any of them leave adolescence unscathed. Unfortunately, though, many don’t. So what can parents do to protect their girls? How can they help girls navigate their way through these messages, and still somehow stay true to the girls′ own desires?
I was wondering what my creepy contacts thought about this?
i think i’ve seen this question before.
BUY HER A DILDO
Self confidence and self respect!
Just make sure she dosent look like a whore.
My father makes sure he meets the boy first.
My mother assures me I’m really pretty, and boys will use that to their advantage.
My mother gives me curfew, which actually isnt early at all, but just so she knowes when I should be walking through the front door.
You kids have a good time.
If he gets out of line, Sweetie, daddy can make it so no one finds his body.
Show them plenty of porn — the really nasty stuff — so they’ll know what to expect and what will be expected of them once they become sexually active.
I’m certain that will have SOME effect……
introduce her to your pervie contacts who wear thongs, play accordions, and talk about poop non stop.
all parents have to do is spend more time with their kids. if the kids arent getting attention from their parents, they will roam elsewhere for attention.
Give her a gun
Have a good time Hun, Dad is here cleaning his guns so dont wait up for me
I have make to pee-pee.
I bought my daughter the Paris Hilton sex tape and told her if she wanted to be rich, popular and happy…. she needed to act just like her.
This question ended in a creepy, dirty old man kind of way….even though a lady asked it. I don’t know what to say. Your blocked for trying to make me think.
My father always endorsed concealed weapons.
Tell her same as my mom told me….
1. always spit
2. Never take on more than 3 at a time
3. For the love of god use the pill
4. don’t smoke afterwards if you really drunk
5. always and I mean always tell him that he was the best evar….if you want him to keep coming back….
Look at me I turned out just great…..
They need to train them in a sound moral base, and a class in self defence doesn’t hurt either.
You added the dildo guy up there to your contacts, didn’t you?
Keep them locked in the basement until they are 21…. without t.v., radio, internet or any other media.
*cries*
1. Skinny girls are gross.
2. You may never ever be prettier than your mother at any time. (That’s in the Bibble.)
3. Keep tampons and FDS in your glove compartment. That’s the odor and confidence issue dealt with.
My parents adored me and I am still a skank. I plan to give my daughter the same speech my mother gave me. This is the God’s honest truth I was 15 and my mother said “I know you are screwing around, for the love of God get on the pill. It made me feel special, and wanted. Like I didn’t need to seek out men to get the attention I was lacking. Like I wasn’t so butt ugly with my wandering eye and gimpy leg that I couldnt keep a man unless I did unspeakable acts…on cam.
My dad started calling me a whore when I was 12 and I hadn’t even thought about having sex yet.
I figured if he already thought I was a whore, I might as well live up to his expectations and act like a whore.
Actually on the real question someone answered with “role playing”
ie. try to use lines on you daughter to seduce her and see her reaction etc etc…….
now THATS creepy!!
Both parents should talk to her about dating. Girls lack confidence and that is usually what leads to swift dating choices and broken hearts. Being open with your kids is key, don’t be afraid to tell them of your own adolescent blunders.